What started as a harmless escape has spiraled into something far more consuming. What used to be an occasional distraction has begun to affect your relationships, your confidence, and even your faith. If you’re married, you might find yourself more critical of your spouse, less satisfied with intimacy, and turning to pornography more often—only to be left with guilt and shame. If you’re single, you may feel burdened by a secret that blocks your pursuit of love, connection, and fulfillment.
Do you find yourself hiding this addiction from your spouse or loved ones, constantly fearing the moment they discover the truth? Whether you’re motivated to address this because it is morally incongruent for you, or if you’re just bothered by it because it’s compulsive (and not a faith issue), we can help.
Maybe your spouse already knows, and the two of you are caught in the storm of figuring out what comes next. Or, perhaps you’re battling this addiction on your own, unsure how to escape
its grip.
At Therapevo, we help men and women break free from the cycle of pornography addiction. We’ll help you navigate the shame, guilt, and pain, guiding you toward true healing, freedom, and healthier relationships.
Do these behaviors sound familiar?
If so, it’s time to seek help. We can guide
you toward freedom and lasting change.
Begin by understanding the root of your addiction, identifying co-occurring behaviors, and exploring patterns in your family history
Create a safety net to protect against relapses, with practical barriers to help you resist triggers
Work with your therapist to break down the sequence of events that lead to your addiction and learn how to intervene early
Uncover the deeper meaning behind your fantasies to understand the emotional wounds driving your addiction
Address attachment wounds and trauma, building the skills needed for authentic, healthy relationships with others—and yourself.
Through this process, we help you uncover and address the roots of addiction, enabling long-term recovery and genuine change.
Therapevo’s online counseling combines the effectiveness of in-person therapy with the convenience
of private, secure video calls.
Save time and energy by eliminating the commute
Meet with your therapist from the comfort of home
Avoid awkward waiting rooms
Ensure absolute privacy as you recover
Break free from the shame cycle of
addiction
Restore intimacy and trust in relationships
Learn healthier ways to cope with life’s challenges
Develop tools for lasting sobriety and fulfillment
Rebuild a deeper connection with your faith and values
Our professional Christian therapists bring decades of combined experience to help individuals overcome pornography addiction and build healthier, more meaningful lives. Whether you’re single or married, we’ll provide compassionate, non-judgmental support to help you achieve your goals.
We’re here to meet you where you are, offering guidance tailored to your unique situation.
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Melissa Bonnell specializes in couples and family therapy, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and trauma-informed training, she uses Narrative Therapy and Emotion-Focused Therapy to support…
Jeremy Zacharias specializes in building healthy relationships, trauma healing, and addiction recovery. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Divinity, he draws from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Systems Therapy,…
Lilien Kovács-Hélisz is a compassionate Registered Clinical Counsellor specializing in trauma therapy, couples counseling, and addiction recovery. With a Master’s in Psychology and certifications in EMDR, Schema Therapy, and Family Therapy, she integrates multiple therapeutic…
Ricky Aguilar is a compassionate therapist specializing in family and couples counseling, pornography addiction, and trauma recovery. With a B.S. in Counselling Psychology and an M.A. in Marriage and Family Therapy, Ricky uses systemic approaches…
Shemiya Ruud specializes in couples, family counseling, and trauma recovery. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and attachment-based interventions, Shemiya creates a warm, client-centered approach to help individuals and families reach their goals. She…
Korey Reimer brings to his work as a therapist over 15 years of experience in ministry, offering a compassionate, empathetic approach to therapy. He specializes in helping individuals, couples, and adolescents navigate anxiety, betrayal trauma,…
Bailey Tonn is an intern therapist completing his Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. Specializing in couples counseling, premarital counseling, affair recovery, and grief support, Bailey uses Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) to help individuals and couples…
Christal Wilson is a compassionate therapist specializing in relationship enhancement, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Divinity in Clinical Counseling, she uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed approaches to support…
Jesse Schellenberg is a dedicated therapist specializing in couples therapy, marriage counseling, and relationship issues. Holding a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, as well as degrees in Christian Studies and Theology, Jesse…
Mari Lee Ayers specializes in building healthier relationships, co-dependency, 12-step recovery, trauma, and grief. Mari Lee takes an eclectic approach, incorporating Attachment Theory, Neuroscience, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. She believes in a holistic,…
Jessica Myles is an intern therapist completing her Master of Arts in Couples and Family Therapy. Bringing ten years of experience in the helping field to her work as a therapist, Jessica specializes in couples…
Ron de Jager brings to the therapy room his background in music and teaching. His holistic, client-centered approach focuses on building a strong therapeutic alliance, helping clients address challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief,…
Jeremiah Palmer is an empathic therapist specializing in family relationships, couples counseling, pornography addiction, and mental health. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, he uses a client-centered approach, drawing from Narrative…
Sharon Snooks is an experienced therapist specializing in trauma, grief, loss, and mental health challenges. With over 30 years in social services, Sharon has a deep understanding of how trauma impacts individuals and families. She…
Mike Takkinen is an experienced therapist specializing in relationship counseling, addiction recovery, and mental health issues. With a background in both clinical and theological studies, he integrates his personal values of authenticity, transparency, and collaboration…
Jennifer is a compassionate therapist specializing in trauma, addiction, relationship counseling, and spiritual formation. With a Master of Arts in Counseling and extensive training in Somatic Experiencing (SE), she offers a holistic, client-centered approach that…
Cara Pederson is a dedicated therapist specializing in trauma recovery, relationship issues, and mental health support. With a Master of Counselling and training in various therapeutic modalities, including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy,…
Caleb Simonyi-Gindele is the co-founder and Clinical Director at Therapevo, specializing in infidelity recovery, trauma, and addiction therapy. With a Master’s in Marriage & Family Therapy and certifications in Sex Addiction Therapy, Caleb uses a…
Dianne specializes in addiction, trauma, and relationship challenges. With a Master of Counselling and certifications in addiction counseling, she helps individuals and couples navigate issues like sex and porn addiction, infidelity, and grief. Dianne’s solution-focused…
Freedom is within reach. Let us help you break the cycle of addiction and create a life filled with genuine connection, healing, and peace.
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Is there hope for someone deeply addicted?
Absolutely. Nobody is too far gone! What we’ve learned over years of treating pornography addiction is that the level of intervention needs to match the level of addiction. So, if what you have been trying is not working, we will help you increase the level of intervention on your addiction.
I’m not sure that I can talk about this in front of someone!
Totally understandable. Pornography addiction thrives on shame and secrecy. We know it can be terrifying to show up for that first session! But, rest assured, we have pretty much heard it all and our therapists show up to that first session with compassion because we know how absolutely done you are with this addiction, and we just want to help.
Should I tell my partner about my pornography addiction?
Almost always, the answer is “yes!” However, there are some nuances to this and there is also a right way and many wrong ways to disclose your addiction. Our recommendation is that you get started with counseling and then we’ll work with you to figure out how to disclose in the least harmful way possible so that you can start living with integrity.
How long does therapy for porn addiction take?
We have a well-established protocol that we use, developed by our Clinical Director, Caleb Simonyi-Gindele. We find that recovery duration generally falls into one of three spans of time:
1) If you grew up in a relatively stable family and just got hooked on porn through curiosity or boredom, and it evolved into a mild coping mechanism: usually 8 to 12 sessions and you’re into a well-established sobriety.
2) If you had some childhood disturbances, nothing extreme, but perhaps your parents divorced or you lost a parent during childhood, or other dysfunction was obvious in the home: you should probably expect 4 to 6 months of weekly sessions to get into a well-established sobriety.
3) If you had some very tough moments during childhood such as abandonment, neglect, childhood sexual abuse, witnessing violence, etc. then you should probably expect 6 to 12 months of weekly session to really get to the roots of the trauma and find healing so that you can enjoy a solid sobriety.
