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Why does the bank statement hurt so much? A lot of betrayed partners are carrying that question, and few people around them expect it. The friends know about the images, or the affair, or the…
You are in the car on the way home from something ordinary. Groceries, a school pickup, dinner with people you like. The person you married is in the seat beside you, close enough to touch….
“Can you actually get PTSD from being cheated on?” https://youtu.be/kGm8a7uVecM Someone asks us a version of that question almost every week. Here is the answer. Yes, betrayal can produce the full symptom picture of post-traumatic…
It has been a few weeks since your partner found out. They have been holding it together, mostly. Then one evening, over nothing in particular, it breaks open. They are crying in a way you…
The intake conversations in my practice have started to change shape. For most of my career, a person describing a pornography problem was describing watching. Lately, more people are describing talking: a companion app that…
After another round of discovery and denial, you found yourself typing a question into the search bar: is my husband a narcissist or a sex addict? Maybe you have read a dozen articles since. Maybe…
There is a specific moment when this question starts. Not when you learned he watches porn. When you learned what kind. Maybe it was search terms, maybe thumbnails, maybe a name that kept reappearing. And…
You told us the needs were still unmet. We heard you. https://youtu.be/W2TcieP6Z_E When we published the last piece on why you watch the porn you watch, the most common pushback was some version of this:…
A few weeks ago I answered a question many people carry around quietly: why am I attracted to certain kinds of porn? After that episode, one of our viewers, @isaaccubes, asked the natural follow-up: why…
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