Spiritual Abuse Therapy

Spiritual Abuse Therapy

Reclaim Your Faith, Your Relationship with God,
and Your Sense of Self

Spiritual abuse can profoundly disrupt your beliefs, relationships, and emotional well-being. Let us help you find clarity, healing, and a renewed sense of confidence in yourself and your journey.

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What is Spiritual Abuse?

Spiritual abuse occurs when individuals or systems in positions of religious authority misuse their power to manipulate, control, or harm others. It can be perpetrated by parents, pastors, Sunday school teachers, or other spiritual leaders. This may involve:

  • Emotional and Psychological Control:
    Using religious teachings to shame, silence, or coerce.
  • Verbal or Emotional Abuse:
    Weaponizing Scriptures to undermine self-worth.
  • Manipulation:
    Leveraging faith to control decisions or maintain dependency.

These experiences can leave lasting emotional and spiritual wounds, but healing is possible.

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The Impact
of Clergy Sexual Abuse

The effects of clergy sexual abuse extend deeply into emotional, spiritual, and relational aspects
of life.

Survivors may experience:

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Loss of Trust

Difficulty trusting God, others or religious institutions

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Faith Challenges

Questioning or distancing from spirituality

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Emotional Pain

Shame, guilt, fear, or self-doubt

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Relational Struggles

Challenges with boundaries or vulnerability

These struggles don’t define you. With the right support, healing is within
reach.

How We Help

Our therapists are experienced in helping survivors of clergy sexual abuse navigate recovery and reclaim their lives. We take a multi-faceted team-based approach, ideally working with three therapists:

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Creating Safety

A judgment-free space to explore your
experiences and emotions

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Processing Trauma

Gently work through the harm caused by abuse while clarifying your values and beliefs

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Restoring Connection

Rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and
reconnect with your faith on your terms

Our evidence-based methods, such as EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and Internal Family Systems, are adapted to fit your specific needs.

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Our Expertise in Spiritual Abuse Therapy

Our therapists are highly trained in helping survivors of spiritual trauma heal with compassion
and expertise

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Melissa Bonnell
Melissa Bonnell MAMFT, CACFT Associate, CCC | Associate Therapist

Melissa Bonnell specializes in couples and family therapy, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and trauma-informed training, she uses Narrative Therapy and Emotion-Focused Therapy to support…

Jeremy Zacharias
Jeremy Zacharias MAMFT, MDiv, RMFT, CCC | Associate Therapist

Jeremy Zacharias specializes in building healthy relationships, trauma healing, and addiction recovery. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Divinity, he draws from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Systems Therapy,…

Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele
Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, CACFT Associate | Associate Therapist; Co-founder of Therapevo

Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele is a compassionate therapist and co-founder of Therapevo Counseling. She specializes in adolescents, young adults, couples, and trauma recovery. With a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy, Verlynda integrates Emotionally Focused Therapy, Motivational…

Lilien Kovács-Hélisz
Lilien Kovács-Hélisz MA, RCC | Associate Therapist

Lilien Kovács-Hélisz is a compassionate Registered Clinical Counsellor specializing in trauma therapy, couples counseling, and addiction recovery. With a Master’s in Psychology and certifications in EMDR, Schema Therapy, and Family Therapy, she integrates multiple therapeutic…

Ricky Aguilar
Ricky Aguilar MAMFT, RCC | Associate Therapist

Ricky Aguilar is a compassionate therapist specializing in family and couples counseling, pornography addiction, and trauma recovery. With a B.S. in Counselling Psychology and an M.A. in Marriage and Family Therapy, Ricky uses systemic approaches…

Shemiya Ruud
Shemiya Ruud MC, CCC, CACFT Associate | Associate Therapist

Shemiya Ruud specializes in couples, family counseling, and trauma recovery. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and attachment-based interventions, Shemiya creates a warm, client-centered approach to help individuals and families reach their goals. She…

Korey Reimer
Korey Reimer MC, CCC | Associate Therapist

Korey Reimer brings to his work as a therapist over 15 years of experience in ministry, offering a compassionate, empathetic approach to therapy. He specializes in helping individuals, couples, and adolescents navigate anxiety, betrayal trauma,…

Bailey Tonn
Bailey Tonn CACFT Student Member | Intern

Bailey Tonn is an intern therapist completing his Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. Specializing in couples counseling, premarital counseling, affair recovery, and grief support, Bailey uses Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) to help individuals and couples…

Christal Wilson
Christal Wilson MDiv, RP | Associate Therapist

Christal Wilson is a compassionate therapist specializing in relationship enhancement, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Divinity in Clinical Counseling, she uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed approaches to support…

Jesse Schellenberg
Jesse Schellenberg MAMFT, RCC, RP | Associate Therapist

Jesse Schellenberg is a dedicated therapist specializing in couples therapy, marriage counseling, and relationship issues. Holding a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, as well as degrees in Christian Studies and Theology, Jesse…

Mari Lee Ayers
Mari Lee Ayers MA, CPC, CT | Associate Therapist

Mari Lee Ayers specializes in building healthier relationships, co-dependency, 12-step recovery, trauma, and grief. Mari Lee takes an eclectic approach, incorporating Attachment Theory, Neuroscience, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. She believes in a holistic,…

Jessica Myles
Jessica Myles CACFT Student Member | Intern

Jessica Myles is an intern therapist completing her Master of Arts in Couples and Family Therapy. Bringing ten years of experience in the helping field to her work as a therapist, Jessica specializes in couples…

Ron de Jager
Ron de Jager CCPA Student Member | Intern

Ron de Jager brings to the therapy room his background in music and teaching. His holistic, client-centered approach focuses on building a strong therapeutic alliance, helping clients address challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief,…

Jeremiah Palmer
Jeremiah Palmer MAMFT, CACFT Associate | Associate Therapist

Jeremiah Palmer is an empathic therapist specializing in family relationships, couples counseling, pornography addiction, and mental health. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, he uses a client-centered approach, drawing from Narrative…

Sharon Snooks
Sharon Snooks RSSW, SEP | Associate Therapist

Sharon Snooks is an experienced therapist specializing in trauma, grief, loss, and mental health challenges. With over 30 years in social services, Sharon has a deep understanding of how trauma impacts individuals and families. She…

Mike Takkinen
Mike Takkinen MA, CPC, CSAT | Associate Therapist

Mike Takkinen is an experienced therapist specializing in relationship counseling, addiction recovery, and mental health issues. With a background in both clinical and theological studies, he integrates his personal values of authenticity, transparency, and collaboration…

Jennifer L. Cole
Jennifer L. Cole MA, CCC, MACA, SEP | Associate Therapist

Jennifer is a compassionate therapist specializing in trauma, addiction, relationship counseling, and spiritual formation. With a Master of Arts in Counseling and extensive training in Somatic Experiencing (SE), she offers a holistic, client-centered approach that…

Cara Pederson
Cara Pederson MC, RCT, CACFT Associate | Associate Therapist

Cara Pederson is a dedicated therapist specializing in trauma recovery, relationship issues, and mental health support. With a Master of Counselling and training in various therapeutic modalities, including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy,…

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele
Caleb Simonyi-Gindele MAMFT, RCC-ACS, CSAT | Co-founder and Clinical Director

Caleb Simonyi-Gindele is the co-founder and Clinical Director at Therapevo, specializing in infidelity recovery, trauma, and addiction therapy. With a Master’s in Marriage & Family Therapy and certifications in Sex Addiction Therapy, Caleb uses a…

Dianne Kuglin
Dianne Kuglin MA, MC, CPC, CCAC | Associate Therapist

Dianne specializes in addiction, trauma, and relationship challenges. With a Master of Counselling and certifications in addiction counseling, she helps individuals and couples navigate issues like sex and porn addiction, infidelity, and grief. Dianne’s solution-focused…

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Why Choose Us?

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Compassionate and
Judgment-Free Support

Your unique story is honored without an agenda

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Proven Techniques

Evidence-based methods designed for spiritual trauma recovery

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Secure and Accessible

Therapy you can access from the safety of your home

You deserve a space to heal and reconnect with yourself and your spirituality.

Questions About Spiritual Abuse Therapy

Will my counselor be a Christian?

Yes. However, your counselor will not be walking with you through this healing in a pastoral role, but in a counseling role. They will not impose their own spiritual beliefs and values on you, but will create a space where it’s comfortable and safe for you to review your own beliefs and come to your own conclusions. Our agenda is to help you find healing: not to force you in any particular direction.

What if I am part of a different faith system than Christianity?

That’s ok. Your counselor will not impose their own spiritual beliefs and values on you, but will create a space where it’s comfortable and safe for you to review your own beliefs and come to your own conclusions. Our agenda is to help you find healing: not to force you in any particular direction.

Can you work with deconstruction?

Yes! Therapy is a safe place to explore your own beliefs and come to your own conclusions. Your counselor will not impose their own spiritual beliefs or values on you but allow you to examine your own.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

You don’t have to face spiritual abuse alone. Let us walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and clarity.

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