Infidelity is devastating, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. With the right support, couples can heal, rebuild trust, and create a stronger bond than ever before. Our therapists guide couples through the difficult but transformative journey of infidelity recovery.
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Infidelity recovery for couples focuses on helping both partners navigate the emotional and relational damage caused by betrayal. This process involves:
Couples therapy offers a path forward for those who want to save their marriage and grow stronger together. Ideally, it runs alongside individual therapy for the betrayed and the betraying partner.
Common challenges couples face include:
Waves of anger, sadness, and guilt can feel overwhelming
Hashing things out into the wee hours of the morning without ever really resolving those big emotions
Struggles to express feelings without harming your partner, or listen without defensiveness
Restoring faith in one another after deception has shattered the foundation of your lives
Physical and emotional closeness often feel distant or impossible
Our therapists are trained to work with both partners in a way that ensures each person feels heard and
respected. Together, we’ll help you:
Establish boundaries and emotional safety
for both partners.
Explore the effects of infidelity on each partner and the relationship.
Learn tools for honest, open, and productive conversations.
Identify steps to repair trust slowly, over time: including transparency and accountability.
Explore how to restore physical and
emotional closeness.
Our team of expert therapists specializes in betrayal recovery for both individuals and couples.
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Melissa Bonnell specializes in couples and family therapy, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and trauma-informed training, she uses Narrative Therapy and Emotion-Focused Therapy to support…
Jeremy Zacharias specializes in building healthy relationships, trauma healing, and addiction recovery. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Divinity, he draws from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Systems Therapy,…
Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele is a compassionate therapist and co-founder of Therapevo Counseling. She specializes in adolescents, young adults, couples, and trauma recovery. With a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy, Verlynda integrates Emotionally Focused Therapy, Motivational…
Lilien Kovács-Hélisz is a compassionate Registered Clinical Counsellor specializing in trauma therapy, couples counseling, and addiction recovery. With a Master’s in Psychology and certifications in EMDR, Schema Therapy, and Family Therapy, she integrates multiple therapeutic…
Ricky Aguilar is a compassionate therapist specializing in family and couples counseling, pornography addiction, and trauma recovery. With a B.S. in Counselling Psychology and an M.A. in Marriage and Family Therapy, Ricky uses systemic approaches…
Shemiya Ruud specializes in couples, family counseling, and trauma recovery. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and attachment-based interventions, Shemiya creates a warm, client-centered approach to help individuals and families reach their goals. She…
Korey Reimer brings to his work as a therapist over 15 years of experience in ministry, offering a compassionate, empathetic approach to therapy. He specializes in helping individuals, couples, and adolescents navigate anxiety, betrayal trauma,…
Bailey Tonn is an intern therapist completing his Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. Specializing in couples counseling, premarital counseling, affair recovery, and grief support, Bailey uses Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) to help individuals and couples…
Christal Wilson is a compassionate therapist specializing in relationship enhancement, trauma recovery, and life transitions. With a Master of Divinity in Clinical Counseling, she uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed approaches to support…
Jesse Schellenberg is a dedicated therapist specializing in couples therapy, marriage counseling, and relationship issues. Holding a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, as well as degrees in Christian Studies and Theology, Jesse…
Mari Lee Ayers specializes in building healthier relationships, co-dependency, 12-step recovery, trauma, and grief. Mari Lee takes an eclectic approach, incorporating Attachment Theory, Neuroscience, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. She believes in a holistic,…
Jessica Myles is an intern therapist completing her Master of Arts in Couples and Family Therapy. Bringing ten years of experience in the helping field to her work as a therapist, Jessica specializes in couples…
Ron de Jager brings to the therapy room his background in music and teaching. His holistic, client-centered approach focuses on building a strong therapeutic alliance, helping clients address challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief,…
Jeremiah Palmer is an empathic therapist specializing in family relationships, couples counseling, pornography addiction, and mental health. With a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, he uses a client-centered approach, drawing from Narrative…
Sharon Snooks is an experienced therapist specializing in trauma, grief, loss, and mental health challenges. With over 30 years in social services, Sharon has a deep understanding of how trauma impacts individuals and families. She…
Mike Takkinen is an experienced therapist specializing in relationship counseling, addiction recovery, and mental health issues. With a background in both clinical and theological studies, he integrates his personal values of authenticity, transparency, and collaboration…
Jennifer is a compassionate therapist specializing in trauma, addiction, relationship counseling, and spiritual formation. With a Master of Arts in Counseling and extensive training in Somatic Experiencing (SE), she offers a holistic, client-centered approach that…
Cara Pederson is a dedicated therapist specializing in trauma recovery, relationship issues, and mental health support. With a Master of Counselling and training in various therapeutic modalities, including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy,…
Dianne specializes in addiction, trauma, and relationship challenges. With a Master of Counselling and certifications in addiction counseling, she helps individuals and couples navigate issues like sex and porn addiction, infidelity, and grief. Dianne’s solution-focused…
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Can a relationship survive infidelity?
Yes! It is so hard to go through this, but many couples go on to build stronger, healthier relationships after betrayal. Therapy helps you address the pain and grow together.
What if one partner isn’t ready to commit to the process?
You can still come for therapy! It’s not uncommon for partners to realize they need help at different points in time. If you’re the betrayer, you can certainly begin to process why you engaged in the betrayal behaviors in individual therapy. Or, if you have been betrayed but your partner is still acting out, you can start to process the pain of the betrayal and learn how to set healthy, effective boundaries even before you’re certain their behavior has ceased.
