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Your partner is putting groceries away and asks, without looking up, whether you picked up the dry cleaning. “Yep, it’s in the car.” It isn’t. You forgot. Nothing bad would have happened if you had…
“Am I actually addicted to porn, or do I just watch a lot?” https://youtu.be/V1P-ayqhMXU You have probably asked yourself that question more than once. You answered it one way right after, when the shame was…
You have already read the thread once. Now you are reading it again, slower, as if a second pass might turn it into something else. The pet names. The tips. The request for a custom…
You reach, and they go quiet. So you reach harder, and they go further. By the third round you are saying things you do not mean, and they have a look on their face you…
Somewhere around the second session after ending an affair, I can usually tell which chair each person is sitting in without asking. https://youtu.be/TMfWWWneFfs One of you walks in lighter. Not happy, exactly, but unclenched. You…
Why does the bank statement hurt so much? A lot of betrayed partners are carrying that question, and few people around them expect it. The friends know about the images, or the affair, or the…
You are in the car on the way home from something ordinary. Groceries, a school pickup, dinner with people you like. The person you married is in the seat beside you, close enough to touch….
“Can you actually get PTSD from being cheated on?” https://youtu.be/kGm8a7uVecM Someone asks us a version of that question almost every week. Here is the answer. Yes, betrayal can produce the full symptom picture of post-traumatic…
It has been a few weeks since your partner found out. They have been holding it together, mostly. Then one evening, over nothing in particular, it breaks open. They are crying in a way you…
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