Sex
Jul 28
Uncover Truth: Female Desire Beyond Myths
For centuries, female sexuality has been misunderstood, wrapped in myths that have been presented as truth. From assumptions that a woman’s sex drive diminishes after kids or is inherently lower than a man’s, to beliefs...
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The Truth About Male Desire: Debunking 4 Common Myths
Cultural scripts and traditional myths often oversimplify male desire, shrinking it into a single, physical dimension. But the reality is far more complex and beautiful. What if your understanding of male desire is only part...
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Why You Might Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Husbands)
Four episodes back we addressed the topic of pain during sex for women and that show received a lot of downloads. Today we return to the topic but this time for men. Sexual issues like...
Continue readingJan 8
Why You May Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Wives)
If you experience pain during sex, you are certainly not alone. Pain during sex is called dyspareunia, and research shows that about 7% of women experience pain it.[1] Of those 7%, about one-quarter of them...
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Is Your Own Sexual History Dragging You Down?
Sometimes sexual guilt can be a real drag — acting like a wet blanket not only on your sex life with your spouse but also even dampening the joy you find in your marriage. And...
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How Your Theology Impacts Your Sex Life
Today we’re exploring the intersection between theology and our sex lives as married couples. These may sound like very disparate topics, but in reality what you believe about God, and what you think the Bible...
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I Am a Virgin and My Fiancee is Not
One of the concerns that often comes up in premarital counselling is from a couple where there are different amounts of sexual experience. Even apart from the moral concerns this may prompt are the fears,...
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How To Get Your Flirt (Back) On… When You Have 3 Kids, a Dog and a Mortgage
Can you remember what it was like to flirt with your spouse before you were together? The fun and excitement of figuring out you were into each other… don’t you wish you could bring that...
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Wife Foreplay: How Much Does She Really Need?
Many studies place average preferred or helpful foreplay time somewhere in the 15 to 25 minute range, but there is wide variation from woman to woman. The number that actually matters is not minutes. It...
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The Impact of Trauma on Marital Sexuality
Did you know that 89% of veterans experiencing PTSD report one or more kinds of sexual dysfunction? And that survivors of childhood sexual abuse have a very common set of negative feelings and beliefs about...
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The Best Sex Happens Inside Marriage
Is this just a Christian myth? Is the idea that the best sex occurs within marriage something that is only believed by church-going people? What does the research say?
Continue readingJan 25
Emotional Intimacy is the Key to Great Sex
What do you do when you want to spice up your sex life? We usually start thinking about new positions, or lingerie or maybe traveling to some exotic location with our spouse. Physical things. But...
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My Husband’s Sexual History Is Affecting Our Intimacy
Today we have a question from one of our audience members who is asking for help to overcome some significant mental barriers around her husband’s sexual history.
Continue readingJun 22
Find Yourself in a Roommate Marriage?
If your marriage is sexless, there is a way back to rekindling intimacy. It’s not easy, but it might not be as impossible as you think, either! We’ll help you understand some potential causes and...
Continue readingMar 2
Why Christian Couples Feel Guilty About Sex
Not every Christian couple feels guilty about sex, but a surprising number do. In fact, we’ve even been asked the question, “I’m married now, but I really, really look forward to and enjoy sex with...
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